The "OH shiney" Dilema

This is whats wrong with most girls today... OH they look good, or dress nice, want!!!!! which will only end with them being hurt or lying to themselves and slowly painfully living with their mistakes till it poisons their very being to nothing like it was before... which is by far worse than openly admitting you have a problem and attempting to change, but I digress... this is the down fall of healthy long living relationships, I'll be the one to fucking say it, and I wish those people could see the error of their ways before the hurt sets in and the only person whiling to deal with you when your in pain, really cares.. unlike the idiots for whom you feel you need in your shallow lives, but oh wait that sounds bitter... well it is some people need to figure this shit out or risk having a shitty shitty future... but As one of the shoulders what ever makes them happy right now I suppose....